Hi.. mera bada beta 10 years ka hai . Aur wo aaj kal koi baat bhi nhi sunta . Kuch samjhati hu tou kuch der hi asar leta hai. Phir se as shetsni shuru
Hi Sana, sometimes no matter how hard we try kids don’t behave in a manner we want them to. This may be outcome of so many different aspects. Kids adhere to rebellious behavior to gain attention. Be affectionate with him. Listen to him carefully. You trying to discipline him, which is necessary; but it’s not helping rather making the situation adverse. Take a break !!! For a while stop telling or advising your son anything. Let him see the outcome of his indiscipline behavior. Once he faces it, calmly explain about the other way of approaching the situation. Cause and consequence theory will work for sure and the change in his behavior if any will be willing and perpetual. If the things don’t improve over period of time, please consult a counselor.
Observe his attention span and anxiety levels if he is restless and frequently changes the positions, please get him tested for ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder)
P.S.:- Don’t make any comparisons with her siblings or friends. Appreciate any slight improvement in his behavior generously by kind words and physical affection. Good Luck!!!