Meri beti jo me bolti hu uska ulta krti h
Means uska behaviour problem. Kisi baat ko serious nhi leti
Hi Sarika, sometimes no matter how hard we try kids don’t behave in a manner we want them to. This may be outcome of so many different aspects. Kids adhere to rebellious behavior to gain attention. Be affectionate with her. Listen to her carefully. You trying to discipline her, which is necessary; but it’s not helping rather making the situation adverse. Take a break !!! For a while stop telling or advising her anything. Let her see the outcome of her indiscipline behavior. Once she faces it, calmly explain about the other way of approaching the situation. Cause and consequence theory will work for sure and the change in her behavior if any, will be willing and perpetual. If the things don’t improve over period of time, please consult a counselor.
P.S.:- Don’t make any comparisons with her siblings or friends. Appreciate any slight improvement in her behavior generously by kind words and physical affection. Good Luck!!!